Be More! Invest in Being a Better You, Invest in Creating & Keeping Better Relationships! Part 1

So as we wind down from our first Fabulous I Am Women's Extravaganza, I cannot help myself but to think about all the women who traveled from Texas, Maryland, Virginia, areas of South Carolina and other surrounding areas to gather with other women with a burning desire to be more and give more to God, to be more and to give more to themselves, to be more and to give more to the man in their life or the man that is on his way.

I don't know anyone who does not desire to enhance or grow in either their personal journey, spiritual journey or their relationship journey if not all three areas but it is truly sad to see so many people not being willing to invest in themselves to experience their own breakthrough!  Some people don't want to spend the money, others feel like they don't have the time while other just isn't interested in taking the necessary steps to be more or just unwilling which is evident by the choices they make. Well if that is you, or especially if that isn't you, keep reading because you will find value in learning about the five thing you must do to BE MORE!

# 1 Identification of Issue

 In order to grow, in order to have a breakthrough you must first have a breakdown or have something happen in your life that makes you keenly aware that the way you are currently handling things, people or a situations are not the most ideal way and there is a better approach!  So simply identify and admit their is a better way; then open yourself up to discovering various solutions.

#2 Educate Yourself on Various Options

Now if you thought step 1 was huge, then you are really going to need to put your big girl skirt on because this requires some heavy lifting!  It is not because getting educated is a difficult thing to do.  There is so much information available, it is almost ridiculous!  But information unknown or unused, missed used, or even more so not applied is just information! The first step is getting to the information!  But too often it is the pride, lazy or the attitude of "I can figure this out on my own" that will keep you stuck in your mess or state of discontentment, wobbling like a baby pig in mud, going nowhere!

So you have to ask yourself, will I allow pride, lazy, or a negative attitude hold me back?  Will you choose instant gratification of getting your needs met artificially through engaging in short, brief meaningless activities like going to the club, kicking it with your dude at his house, or spending the day gossiping with your girlfriend over investing in being a better you?  Stop substituting mindless activity for true fulfillment!  The reason you aren't experiencing the life and relationship you dreamed of is because of one or two reason:

I.) You haven't been able to align what matters to you the must (YOU, YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD) with your actions and your communication so there is a constant conflict 

AND/OR 

II.) You have been doing your own thing so long you are not willing to allow someone else to pour into your life due to stubbornness or the lack of self-discipline.  

If this is you, think about where you were six (6) month ago.  What has changed?  Have you grown in the last six (6) months?  If so, is it recognizable to others? Are the same things happening or not happening in your life then, now? For in Proverbs 1:7 it says that fools despise wisdom and instruction! A wise person and a foolish person falls on two opposite ends of the spectrum.  Where do you lie?  What can you do to get more WISDOM?  Are you willing to take instructions or does it burns your soul for someone to tell you want to do? 

I am so sick and tired of Christian saying they do not practice or belief in improving their self-discipline or think self-control is not important.  The devil is a lier! You will never experience the growth and development in your life, until you learn to listen to someone other than yourself AND learn to have self-discipline!  Once you identify various solutions, choose what is the best for you based on where you are right now.

#3 Choose at least one Solution

So now that you have let go of your pride, stubbornness and the "I don't need your help attitude", now you can aggressively and expeditiously choose at least one solution to start on your journey of being more!   There is so many options out their to Be MORE! From reading a self-help book, the best one I know is THE BIBLE, to attending a transformational conference like the Fabulous I Am Women's Extravaganza or even a tele-summit like the Be More Breakthrough tele-summit!


Now you can download the bible application for free 99 no excuse and the next Fabulous I Am Women's extravaganza isn't until Spring 2015!  

So a viable option for you today is to register for the Be More Breakthrough tele-summit!  The bitter sweet is there is less than one week left before the tele-summit is over! The good news is there are still several sessions left about our favor topic RELATIONSHIPS, RELATIONSHIPS, RELATIONSHIPS!  From quality connection to the 7 biggest mistakes in dating to 5 Conscious Tips from Moving from Being a Mess to Loving Yourself Again! My good friend and prior class mate, S. Rasheem, the Be More Catalyst is offering this DYNAMIC tele-summit to you for again FREE 99! I will be talking about Avoiding the Seven (7) Mistake in Dating because as you know I am so sick of my sisters suffering and getting hurt by men who don't deserve them!  So I had to let these secrets out! !

Okay here is insight on the 3 step. Being more is more like a marathon not a track meet. Start your Marathon today! Invest in Being a Better you so You Can Create and Keep Better Relationships!  Join us in a few days for the last two steps to being More!

Love you sis!

Jill